you bought this place in italy and fixed it up. >> uh-huh. >> and had this nice retirement going. the wheels came off of the wagon when your mother blaha -- laura was in l.a. and needed help. >> santa barbara. >> her husband died. >> uh-huh. >> she started to decline mentally. >> yeah. >> and she was out at a retirement, assisted lying and thought that is where she would live out her days. >> for sure. >> it was -- didn't work like that. she didn't hear well and handy heard well since her 30s, and she started to, you know, not be able to function and realize how much he was covering for her, her husband. >> yes. >> and she was wandering the grounds at night and i was getting calls. it was really bad. >> so you brought her back to new york and i don't know fortuitously or a miracle, something, the place across the hall from where you lived in new york, where you relocated from mill valley, the second home other than italy back and forth, that opened up and your kids were able to help. max and allison, right? >> yeah. >> how did that work out? it's hard to care for an elderly parent